Rien d'especial.. relax, kick back & feel at ease *^_^*
The situation in beautiful yet wounded Beirut is not getting any better, after the mess with the university students earlier today things got awfully worse in the streets of different spots from the capital tonight, I can't find the words to express how I feel, since they say a picture is worth a 1000 words, here are some I found from CNN after what went on today in Lebanon..
لبيروت ... مجد من رماد لبيروت ..
Who the hell gets married just because all of his friends are married!! or who would get married just because they're almost 30! Or gets married to someone because they have fancy cars or own a jetplane!? oh & who the hell gets married because they wanna be married o bs! regardless who's on the receiving end of it!
You know what I think? I think "but that's only me" that marriage should be thought of as a fun awesome hilarious trip you know you get to take once, now would you wanna waste that chance with someone you don't know well enough? Or you're not sure you'll be enjoying it with? would you go on a trip with someone your mama chose for you & hope it goes well? NO! that trip should be taking with someone you have so much fun with, someone you enjoy truly when you're spending time with even if it was just over coffee, your true best friend, your soul mate "even though I don't believe but hey the whole idea is unrealistic so might as well make it all fantasia"
I am pissed because I got a call from a close friend who's been complaining for over 2 years on how messed up his life is, he's not the only one, actually I may know 2 & only 2 truly happy married couple, allah layghayer 3alaihom.
Today, a couple gets married.. the act at first (I hate the most) until it starts becoming normal towards boring, before you know it, it would be all about the kids for the mom & all about poker night for the dad, skip all the individual traveling & the separate bedroom & all the cheating... when they both hit 50 the man takes off & gets remarried to someone he feels fresh & alive with (not necessarily young by the by) & what will the 50 year old woman do? weep?
The most adorable thing, I was sitting with a friend outside a coffee shop, there was a group of 3 Americans sitting next to our table, out of nowhere comes a cat, & miaws their side, they pet it a little until the cat came ourside, it was miawing alot, I felt bad for it, one of the American ladies said that she was this close to get chicken from a close restuarant but she didn't cause her friends laughed at her, I was already going to get my cat some food, I was wishing I had some at that moment, "take the cat" the American woman said, "I already have one" I replied "you take it "I am in here for a couple of months" suddenly the cat JUMPED into my friend's lap, we all laughed cause come on it was funny, he picked her up & placed her on the ground, again with all the miawing & petting, she jumped again into my friend's lap, here's what I didn't get, why him! there were like 4 other people she didn't want any of us! weird huh.. few seconds later she bit me, then the american lady was like "that's it, laugh all you want am going to get her some chicken" she takes off & comes back with chicken "you're a great person" I said as I was leaving, she really was, I bet non of you would have gotten up to buy food for a homeless cat..
It was amazing, I went to a colleague’s birthday party, almost everybody from work was there which was good to see off working time or place, & I also saw a couple of people I haven't seen in a long time which was good, even better, the party was at my bestfriend's place who happens to be friends with the birthday girl's fiance, (3efastkom?) wanna know what's best? I met someone I've been so wanting to meet for a while (who also happens to be a blogger) it was better than any plan I could have came up with =}
I HAVE A NEW CRUSH!! YEHAAAA! I can hear some of you going (ohooo) hehehe but I don't care I love that feeling! & I am so okay with the fact that there's NOTHING I can do about it since he's another guy from work.. but hey =} I love the feeling it's all freshening!
My dear friend found this & thought of me when he saw it, I thought it did look a little somewhat like me.. in a smaller headed way..
okay I may have chubby ankls but they're not that chubby!
me go now, pillow call =}
Did you know that today was "National Breakup Day" ?! I saw this at Yahoo and thought I'd share some of the good breakup stories with you guys, check out the different acts:
1. "This guy I was dating for a couple of months asked his mom to do it for him. She told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. Plus that he was seeing his next-door neighbor. Then she gave me a hug on his behalf. And all this was in front of my coworkers. It was so humiliating."
.2. "As I was preparing to go to my in-laws for Christmas, I told my ex-wife that I couldn't go and that I had met someone else."
.3. "He wrote me an email saying, 'Goodbye my friend.' Are you kidding me?! GOODBYE MY FRIEND?!!!"
.4. "After my ex sent me an email to break up with me, I received a text message from his new girlfriend stating I had only two weeks to find a new place to live, as she was moving in!"
.5. "I was served with divorce papers on our wedding anniversary."
.6. "A guy I was dating was at the movies making out with another girl. They were sitting right in front of me and my friends."
.7. "He broke up with me by text message on a cell phone."
.8. "Well, we were supposed to go out one Friday. He called at 8 pm and told me he couldn't go because he fell down and hurt his back in the snow. My friend from work called me at 3 am that night and told me that she saw him with another woman dancing and kissing her on the neck. She took a picture of them with her phone. The next day he called me and said that he was in a lot of pain. I broke up with him and told him what I knew. Later that year he died of a heart attack. Before he died he wrote me an apology email. I forgave him at the cemetery."
.9. "He broke up with me on MySpace."
.10. "It was our anniversary and I had just gotten off work and was ready to celebrate. When I came home she was sitting on the bed upset, so I asked what was wrong. She said that her ex-boyfriend had come home from Iraq and asked her to marry him and she said yes. Then I heard a horn out front and she left."
.11. "We were in a club and she was drinking hard core. She left me on the dance floor, climbed up on the bar top, and did a two-song strip dance for the room. When she had shown everything and only had her thong left on, she jumped on some guy and left forever!"
.12. "I was two months pregnant with our daughter when the guy I was living with for two years said he would be right back. I didn't see him again until our daughter was 12 years old."
.13. "Six months before my wedding, my fiancé calls me and tells me that he isn't sure what he wants. In the background I hear a woman's voice telling him that she loves him and then I hear him saying it back to her. Later, he sued me because I didn't give back the ring."
.14. "He did not show up for our anniversary dinner. He just sent flowers with a goodbye note."
.15. "I returned some library books and when I got back 15 minutes later she was gone. She had grabbed the baby, all the diapers, and a few clothes for the baby. She didn't even leave a note. Later on, she left a message saying she wanted to meet me and talk about things and gave me a place to meet her. She didn't show up. When I got home, she had cleared out all her clothes."
"& they lived happily ever after"
I had so much to say
بس ضاق خلقي مابي اكمل
I hope you don't get to go through it, but what do you think would be the worst break up act?