Rien d'especial.. relax, kick back & feel at ease *^_^*
Who the hell gets married just because all of his friends are married!! or who would get married just because they're almost 30! Or gets married to someone because they have fancy cars or own a jetplane!? oh & who the hell gets married because they wanna be married o bs! regardless who's on the receiving end of it!
You know what I think? I think "but that's only me" that marriage should be thought of as a fun awesome hilarious trip you know you get to take once, now would you wanna waste that chance with someone you don't know well enough? Or you're not sure you'll be enjoying it with? would you go on a trip with someone your mama chose for you & hope it goes well? NO! that trip should be taking with someone you have so much fun with, someone you enjoy truly when you're spending time with even if it was just over coffee, your true best friend, your soul mate "even though I don't believe but hey the whole idea is unrealistic so might as well make it all fantasia"
I am pissed because I got a call from a close friend who's been complaining for over 2 years on how messed up his life is, he's not the only one, actually I may know 2 & only 2 truly happy married couple, allah layghayer 3alaihom.
Today, a couple gets married.. the act at first (I hate the most) until it starts becoming normal towards boring, before you know it, it would be all about the kids for the mom & all about poker night for the dad, skip all the individual traveling & the separate bedroom & all the cheating... when they both hit 50 the man takes off & gets remarried to someone he feels fresh & alive with (not necessarily young by the by) & what will the 50 year old woman do? weep?
The most adorable thing, I was sitting with a friend outside a coffee shop, there was a group of 3 Americans sitting next to our table, out of nowhere comes a cat, & miaws their side, they pet it a little until the cat came ourside, it was miawing alot, I felt bad for it, one of the American ladies said that she was this close to get chicken from a close restuarant but she didn't cause her friends laughed at her, I was already going to get my cat some food, I was wishing I had some at that moment, "take the cat" the American woman said, "I already have one" I replied "you take it "I am in here for a couple of months" suddenly the cat JUMPED into my friend's lap, we all laughed cause come on it was funny, he picked her up & placed her on the ground, again with all the miawing & petting, she jumped again into my friend's lap, here's what I didn't get, why him! there were like 4 other people she didn't want any of us! weird huh.. few seconds later she bit me, then the american lady was like "that's it, laugh all you want am going to get her some chicken" she takes off & comes back with chicken "you're a great person" I said as I was leaving, she really was, I bet non of you would have gotten up to buy food for a homeless cat..
It was amazing, I went to a colleague’s birthday party, almost everybody from work was there which was good to see off working time or place, & I also saw a couple of people I haven't seen in a long time which was good, even better, the party was at my bestfriend's place who happens to be friends with the birthday girl's fiance, (3efastkom?) wanna know what's best? I met someone I've been so wanting to meet for a while (who also happens to be a blogger) it was better than any plan I could have came up with =}
I HAVE A NEW CRUSH!! YEHAAAA! I can hear some of you going (ohooo) hehehe but I don't care I love that feeling! & I am so okay with the fact that there's NOTHING I can do about it since he's another guy from work.. but hey =} I love the feeling it's all freshening!
My dear friend found this & thought of me when he saw it, I thought it did look a little somewhat like me.. in a smaller headed way..
okay I may have chubby ankls but they're not that chubby!
me go now, pillow call =}