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The Woman From Hell
I think lost almost all of my friends, especially male friends, once they got married, unexplained phenomenon.. but wait! not all! I have one who didn't :)
Which means there could be few more out there, I SEE HOPE!! I have this friend of mine he’s very dear to me, we know eachother very well he’s a wonderful wonderful guy, well he might have a few ticks here and there like we all do but really, a wonderful guy, I could totally disregard these ticks, oh and compared to almost everyone else I knew? Yep, he sure is an angel, we count on each other on many things, we seek eachother’s advice and help once we need one with no hesitation, it’s good to have someone like that in your life.
So he recently got married like a year and a half ago, I didn’t expect him specifically out of our friends to be cool! I mean he always seemed to value traditional beliefs and wouldn’t speak much of his problems, I never thought he could be this open minded, he introduced me to his wife and I have to say it meant a lot to me, it made me realize that this guy trusts me for real, I appreciated that dearly, she seemed to be a good person, her and I didn’t become friends but she totally understood that him and I have been friends for a very long time and we’re as close as a brother and a sister can be, sweet of her of course.
I was happy to see him happy, he had a babyboy and it was fun to hear him speak about his life and see him as the husband and the father I never thought he would be, am proud :) but guess what, like everything else, that didn't last.. it was only in the early days, and I do mean days, he’s still the same amazing person he always been, not her though, he’s so unhappy.. and suddenly! I don’t know what to say when he tells me about the troubles they have, specially that he never told anyone about this.. it made me feel like he's reaching out.. and it keep on getting worse! I tried to explain that it’s what being married is all about and that it's normal but then what do I know, and I don’t get what suddenly happened!! she suddenly became WEIRD! I hate to be in this shoe, I try to help and to make him see that it’s fine and it’ll be okay and it’s only a matter of time bla bla blaaa… but who am I kidding!! This woman is from hell!!! She means to piss him off and would be super mean to him over stupid stuff and in front of strangers! she shows no respect! No man would let that go!! Hell no woman would let a man treat her that way!! he doesn’t know what to fabricate to make her happy! my advice of “it’s okay it’s only a matter of time” made him seem to be accepting what she’s doing! I messed up! I thought if she saw that he's still a sweet heart even though she's a total bitch she'd come around! but she keeps on getting nastier and nastier!
At first I got to think.. okay he’s just making it up, but then things got rrrrreally obvious, Only hearing the stories give me headache.. The poor thing has to live with it! I’ve always hated meddling in issues like that but IT’S TOO MUCH!!! she was becomming bitter slowly but she reached the top only after she had the baby!!!
I swear if his mom knew what he’s going through she would kick her out herself! What kind of advice can I give him now! I don't like to see my friend going through such horrible moments while he's reaching out to me! and I can’t say get a divorce even though it seems to be the perfectest solution! Who would want to live such life!? Laish 3awaar il raas laaish!! He has a kid! He will have to sacrifice for the sake of this helpless child, but then would it be mentaly healthy for this child to see his parents living this way!? You guys .. I don't know what to do...
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