It might be easier for those of us who didn't live the experience, but to many others who'd been there & suffered greater losses that some of which can not be compensated for by any means, it's never easy and almost impossible to simply forget & forgive.They say that time is always a good healer, but in our case the body gash was deep back in 1990, and still is to this day. The only thing i would love to see and feel again though, would be the way our community acted during crisis, with the exclusion of the latter.
I wont, I've lost my aunt and uncle. I dont know I hate everything related to IRAQ even though they dont have anything to do with Saddam hussain. I've seen alot of things when I was a lil'Kid bas i wont forget the seen , dead people on the road .. killed.. also asking for my father and some kuwaiti just told them where my father is and 7emdellah they couldnt trace him till the war was over.
okay to those who were not here and think we might be making a big deal of it think of it this way, someone whose let's say last name "X" walks into your house kills a member of your family and walks out, for as long as you shall live whenever you read or hear the name "X" the only thing that will hit your mind is the moment of killing, am just trying to make a smaller image for those who think we're making a biggy.. no good?
Let the past rest in peace why don't u! I don't think anyone can forget not nohow. But I also think the past is best left where it is, In the Past.
And about forgivness.. well .. I think when u carry grudges and hurt the only one effected in the end is you. This black spot in you, unless treated festers & eats u up. The only way to healing is forgivness me thinks!.. Heal ppl ;p.. It's time to live, be merry, heal & let heal.
So what about yesterday! Lets rejoice in our peacful today ;) It's a lovely day today .. you exist, and you are witnessing it .. think about it.. when today is gone.. it's gone forever.
Vincent, I'm sorry for your loss. But remember death is there, always has been, always will be. It's a fact. The causes may change but death remains. Allah yir7amhom inshallah o yghamid roo7hom el yanna. El baraka feek now.. you're the future .. no? ;)
Spontaneo .. I'm not even gonna finish that nick name lol too short! ;p I believe it takes a great big open heart to be able to bypass such a delima as the one u mentioned! And Open hearts belong to wise ppl. But it's not all together impossible. I don't believe in the impossibility of good .. even against the worst of bad.
Peach oh Peach, as the wise person you are you should recognize the difference between "dead" which we respect and have no complain against as a part of nature and "Killed" :) as a part of a human act, the past shall rest in peace when it's gone in peace, I for one love to spread the love as much as it may seem possible, it's not possible here, when you see people's lives being taken infront of your eyes while their parents asking them to have mercy in their hearts.. sorry :) not an easy thing to let go :). today is what makes yesterday, if you suffered today you'd wish to suffer no more tomorrow, yet again remember how you once did yesterday and learn from it, but what can you learn when it's nothing you have done that you're being punished for :) sorry your words sounds like someone who hasn't been through it and I understand when you haven't suffer, good for you by the way and blame us who did for not letting go :)
I didn't get that black spot out of no where, thanx to the ones I shall never forgive.
let's hope the world of bad is gone with yesterday for good and will never return.
Peach, Do you atleast know the difference between "dead" & "killed"??!! We're NOT talking here about the normal "7alat el wafat" We're talking about OUR people who have been killed by those criminals with NO hearts!! How can we forget that?! I for one CAN'T even FORGIVE!!!! & you're saying "the past is best left where it is, in the past" Well, I just don't think I can judge!! Are you sure you're a kuwaiti??!!! =/